My entitled family wants to take my house and give it to my brother, even though they kicked me out of their home because they had «no space» for me…

Edit, parents found out I was renting rooms out because Syl basically stalked me in some way. Then she told my parents, and then my parents contacted me. And then my mother came over to cry about it.

Since then my parents haven’t bothered me once about the house. So things are good for me. My parents and Dan, not so much.

It turns out Syl is a far worse person than even I thought. I already knew she was a gaslighting self-victimizing dramaqueen. But she sank even lower.

Because Dan’s youngest child turned out not to be his. Yeah you all read that correctly. Syl had an affair.

Which in retrospect isn’t all that surprising. And something a few people here totally called months ago. After being caught Syl was ousted from the family.

Dan just recently finished with his divorce. Which actually went in his favor since we thankfully live in an at-fault state. Dan also sued to get his name taken off the birth certificate of the youngest child, and won.

Basically, after the incident where my parents tried to force me to hand over my house, things got pretty tumultuous over at their house. Syl blamed me, a lot. She was convinced somehow that I had tons of money, like I’d won the lottery or something, and that I should share the wealth.

Apparently it was her idea that they come to my Christmas party, because she hoped they could all try to get on my good side. It was also her idea to make my parents and Dan try to get money from me for an apartment. So it really burst her bubble when Dan and my parents informed her of how my finances actually were.

For the longest time she had Dan and my parents fully engulfed in her toxic mindset, and only fed their narcissism with her own. So her blaming me made the rest of them blame me. That is until what happened in front of the police when they tried to steal my house.

That’s when the downfall for Syl really started. My parents and Dan were apprehensive about coming to my Christmas party after the way I’d outed them. But Syl convinced them to just throw together a few cheap gifts from what they could get at the last minute and just show up, because he’d never throw us out once we’re already there.

Boy was she wrong. She gambled on that plan, and I with the complete blessings of everyone I’d invited threw her and the rest of them out. Her plan she no doubt thought was the most clever thing ever, backfired in her face spectacularly.

I guess being chewed out by family at my party not only wrecked my parents’ reputation even more, it actually started a wake-up call for them to eventually not listen to Syl anymore. And as I said in my last post, my parents decided on going back to church. Perhaps because last year I’d said they’d probably go to hell for their actions.

I can’t say that’s the real reason. But you gotta admit, it would feel kinda satisfying if that was the case. Though my parents hadn’t been to church in two decades before going back.

While I don’t think it’s a idea that they’re going to church, they need to understand that going doesn’t just give them a do-over for all the shit they’ve done in the past. But I have a little faith they’re at least trying, because my parents came to my house without Dan to personally apologize to me after they’d seen an animated video of my first three posts. That’s right, they’ve known about this reddit account for a long time now.

They also know everything I’m saying. Yes, they’re unhappy about it. But I feel everyone here deserves an update since it’s anonymous.

For my parents and Dan though, watching animated video of themselves and their own actions was a great way to make them see what kind of people they really are. And they came over to apologize to me later. I’d never seen my father apologize like that to anyone.

And the man isn’t a good actor. So this felt genuine. They fully acknowledged what they did to me, and how there’s no excuse for any of it.

They even described themselves as narcissists, and admitted the truth that they had wronged me very badly. Then they went on to blame Syl for a lot of things. Yeah, they kinda threw her under the bus.

But it’s not like she wasn’t guilty of everything they said. My parents have been getting counseling for a while now too, and did offer group family counseling. But I declined as I’m not ready for that any time soon.

Dan himself didn’t apologize to me for some time. But he looked extremely remorseful any time the past was brought up. Meanwhile Dan and Syl’s marriage absolutely fell apart.

It wasn’t a crumble, it was a cascade. Without me as the scompay goat-slash-black-sheep-slash ATM, that they couldn’t mock or try to get money from anymore, and after the public humiliation of social media, my Reddit posts, and the animated online video, Syl finally let out enough of her toxic on Dan and my parents for them to realize she’s not the person they thought she was. Their denial had been strong.

But Syl’s entitlement was stronger. I’ve had many a thought of lightsabers clashing over this drama. Syl clad like a bimbo sith with a lightsaber that looks like a giant lipstick, or something like that.

I imagine there’s a wealth of puns and jokes to be had there. But I really didn’t bother to think much more detail about it. But as you can imagine, things only got worse because Syl kept looking for other ways to get what she wanted.

She kept bringing up ads for used campers and RVs to try and get my parents to buy one to live out of, so they could have the main house. And she kept doing this no matter how many times they told her to stop. She even tried to say my parents should just buy an RV and have a life on the road, like normal old people do.

That was stupid, even for Syl. The opposite was suggested by my parents that Dan and Syl buy a camper themselves to live out of it instead. Syl basically said she shouldn’t have to do that since she’s the mom.

She pretty much lorded the fact that she thought she had total parental authority over everyone’s heads because the kids in the house were all hers. And when Syl didn’t get her way, she actually took her baby and left the house to disappear for several days. They knew she was fine because her phone was still working, and she was responding texts with short but passive aggressive answers.

And when she came back, she was only more embittered because nobody caved to her demands while she was away. Syl also refused to go to church. But Dan went with our parents and took his kids along as well, save for the youngest since Syl refused to let him take the baby anywhere.

Personally I don’t go to church. I believe in God and all that stuff. But I just don’t like church.

Besides, it never did me any good growing up. Update 5. Part 2. Just so everyone understands, a lot of this information came from Dan and my parents. So I’m just telling what I know…